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01 July 2012

Pillow Talk ^.^

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Pillow talk is a common thing for girls. So, in this post it is most probably more suitable for girls.



The pillow talk I'm going to tell you about is actually a talk we attended in the previous semester called 'Pillow Talk; Menses/Haid dan Istihadah". Know what? The talk was so santai and we were encouraged to bring our bantal busuk along.hihihii Even the madam who gave the speech was so cool and open-minded, very generous with knowledge that make us greedy for more.


Dear fellas, before I start to share anything just bear in mind that I'm no 'ustazah' here, just a normal human being who's hoping to be awarded a few eternal share in the hereafter, InsyaAllah :)

So, did you ever had the mixup mystification about menses? (GIRLS ONLY) Have you ever wonder whether can you trim your nails or cut your hair when you are menstruating?

It's not haram if you did, but it's not wajib to do it. We're not encourage to trim our nails or cut our hair when we're having our period. It's not wrong nor it's right.

Islam doesn't encourage us to do it. Based on the scientific research, when we're having our period, most of the minerals in the body will accumulate at the end of our body, which is our hair or nails. Then, when it ends and a new cycle starts, everything will be back to normal. Don't worry ;)

Therefore, if we trim our nails or cut our hair when we're having our period, our precious minerals will be gone :( But then, if you are in a desparate situation, dah terdesak sangat-sangat nak potong kuku atau potong rambut, it's okay to do it. Takda la sampai mati ke, apa-apa ke. Just are you willing to lose your minerals? Noooo, right?

So, how to avoid this impending situation? It is advised that EVERY girls SHOULD have their own period calender. As we all know, our period is a monthly cycle which means that it will happen once a month. We learnt in Form 5 Biology that our menstrual cycle happened in every 28 days. Well, actually the cycle is around 28-36 days. Not everyone is the same.

Hence, when you have a regular cycle and you record it in a calender, you can easily predict when will be your next period. Plan wisely when you're going to do trim your nails okay? :)

Have you ever heard a taboo that when menstruating you are not advised to drink cold water? Why is it so? When you drink cold water, your blood vessels will contract. That's why you are likely to suffer menstrual pain or senggugut. Drink lots of water as water can help to ease your blood flow and hopefully lessen the pain. Girls, don't ever skip breakfast. (A reminder for myself too)  Skipping breakfast may also lead to senggugut. Moreover, make sure you have your meal. Our body needs lots of energy to regenerate the blood lost.

Furthermore, I would highly recommend you (Cheh, macam doktor) to make zikir and istighfar as an obsession as when we're having our period, there's a limitation in performing our 'ibadah such as the solat and Quran recitation. If Allah wills, we will be granted with lots of good deeds :)

Kalau perempuan, 
nak masuk syurga senang je. 
Solat lima waktu, 
Puasa di bulan Ramadhan, 
Menjaga kehormatan diri, 
dan Taat pada suami. 
Wassalam :)

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